
FINALLY—A BIRTH COURSE FOR COUPLES, TAUGHT BY A COUPLE
Confidence comes from preparation—and this course gives you the tools and the training to feel calm, confident, and connected as you step into birth—together.
INTRODUCING
OUR BiRTHROOM® ACADEMY
Premiere childbirth education—designed for couples, taught by a couple.
Led by a Physician Assistant + Family Doctor duo with over 25 years of combined experience and four natural births, this course equips both of you to prepare, advocate, and birth with confidence—together.
TELL ME IF THIS SOUNDS LIKE YOU:
You want to feel calm and confident walking into your birth experience.
You want to avoid unnecessary interventions—and actually understand your options.
You’re overwhelmed by conflicting advice, and you need a clear plan.
Your partner wants to help, but isn’t sure how to step up.
Good News!
I help people with those same problems every single day.
IMAGINE THIS…
There was a way to prepare for a safe, unmedicated birth without the overwhelm.
You could replace fear and confusion with clarity, teamwork, and real peace of mind...
You could stop second-guessing every decision and start trusting your body, your partner, and your plan...
You could enter labor feeling supported, steady, and so ready—with your BirthRoom Daddy Doula™ right by your side...
You could actually enjoy this journey—knowing you’ve done the work to feel informed, empowered, and aligned with your birth vision...
All OF THAT IS POSSIBLE INSIDE OF OUR BIRTHROOM® ACADEMY
Join today! Doors are closing soon.
Today only...
When you join Our BirthRoom Academy through the end of today, you’ll also get access to the Birth Plan Makeover Bonus—a step-by-step workshop where we walk you through how to create a birth plan that actually works when it matters most.
You’ll get our real student templates and a live training replay where we cover how to handle birth variations without losing your voice or vision.
WHO IS OUR BIRTHROOM® ACADEMY PERFECT FOR?
(Hint: If you see yourself below, we made this for you.)
The “Wait...What Did I Just Sign Up For?” Parent
You just saw two pink lines—
…and now you’re knee-deep in Google spirals.
You’re wondering:
❓ What does a contraction actually feel like?
❓ Can my partner do more than just hand me ice chips?
❓ How do I avoid interventions I didn’t ask for?
Inside the Academy, we break it all down—
simple, clear, step-by-step.
So you and your partner walk into labor prepared, not panicked.
Because birth isn’t something you just get through—
It’s something you can own.
The “This Time, We’re Doing It Differently” Parent
Maybe your last birth left you feeling…
🚫 Rushed
🚫 Unheard
🚫 Out of control
And you’ve decided—you’re not doing that again.
This time, you’re walking in with intention—
ready to advocate, stay grounded, and have a birth that actually aligns with your values.
Inside Our BirthRoom Academy, we’ll help you rewrite the story—
with evidence-based tools, partner prep, and the clarity you deserve.
The “I Want a Natural Birth… But Where Do I Even Start?” Parent
You’re all in for a natural or low-intervention birth—
but TBH… it’s overwhelming. 😵💫
You’ve read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
Maybe even taken a hospital class...
But you still don’t feel ready to:
🔹 Advocate for yourself
🔹 Handle contractions confidently
🔹 Get your partner on board
Inside Our BirthRoom Academy, we give you the roadmap—
so you can go from unsure and scattered to focused, equipped, and ready.
Because wanting a natural birth is the first step.
Knowing how to get there? That’s where we come in.
No matter where you're starting from...
you’re in the right place.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF YOU’RE ASKING:
“Can I feel calm and in control during birth?”
“Is it possible to have an empowered, natural birth?”
“Can my partner really learn to support me like a pro?”
“Can I confidently avoid unnecessary interventions and make informed choices?”
ON THE FLIP SIDE…
This is not for you if:
You’re hoping everything just falls into place without preparation.
You’re not open to learning a new way to approach birth—one that’s focused on teamwork, trust, and working with labor through every stage.
You’d rather rely solely on what your medical provider tells you, instead of learning how to make informed choices.
You believe unmedicated birth is only for “crunchy moms” or people with a super high pain tolerance.
You’re not ready to invest in your birth experience yet
REAL STUDENTS, REAL RESULTS
From overwhelmed & confused to informed & empowered✨
This Course Gave Us the Tools and the Confidence💖
From Nervous First-Time Parents to Empowered Birth Pros👫
I Took Lamaze Before—But This Time, I Knew Exactly What to Do
I Thought It Was Just for Her—Then I Realized It Was for Us💡
From Unplanned C-Section to Unshakable Confidence💪
Hi, I’m Jackai!
I’m a Physician Assistant and mom of four who helps first-time parents and those healing from past birth trauma feel confident, supported, and heard during childbirth—so they can have a safe and positive birth experience that actually honors you.
I’m a Physician Assistant by training, but a birth educator by calling—and a BirthRoom Daddy Doula™ trainer by popular demand. I’ve had four unmedicated births (yes, on purpose), taught hundreds of students how to advocate for themselves, and convinced my husband (a Family Physician) to co-teach with me using minimal dad jokes.😅
When I’m not helping parents get birth-ready, I’m probably juggling school schedules, hunting for missing water bottles, or answering deep toddler questions like, “Do babies cry in heaven?”
WHY I CREATED OUR BIRTHROOM® ACADEMY
I created this course because we’ve seen too many first-time parents walk into childbirth feeling anxious, unheard, and unprepared—and it doesn’t have to be that way.
I share the same tools that helped us and so many students have safe, unmedicated births—not by chance, but by choice.
I believe that confident, informed birth should be the norm, not the exception. Every family deserves to feel supported, equipped, and empowered from the very beginning. This course is my way of making that possible—one birth at a time.
Real Families. Real Transformation.
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★★★★★
"The day before our son was born, we were at the hospital and they wanted to induce my wife. I asked our informed consent questions we learned…If we hadn't met Jackai and Stephen, I wouldn't have known how to handle the pressure of the hospital staff. They tried to scare us, but I held my ground and advocated for my wife and child.
Steven
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★★★★★
"Honestly, I was a bit skeptical at first, but the education around the birth process, diet requirements, and strategies for labor, hospital births, etc., is gold. Plus, you're learning from two medical professionals in a friendly and supportive environment. Completely changed my perspective on the birthing process. I can't recommend this enough for anyone expecting children, whether it's your first baby or your fifth."
Martin
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★★★★★
"They are truly passionate and care not only about the work they are doing to de-medicalize birth; but they genuinely care about their students and families. The love they show is evident and I cannot recommend them highly enough. Our family is truly grateful for the connections we have built with them."
Cora
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★★★★★
“It was really important for us know what was occurring at each stage of labor as well as ensure my body was prepared. With the knowledge we learned, we really could have had our baby anywhere because we learned how to advocate for what we wanted. Their course helps build your own confidence in the process. I think it is a must for first time parents. “
Jarrah
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★★★★★
"I felt a lot more at ease because of their instruction. They were also very helpful in navigating the stressful time of postpartum and gave helpful tips. I was able to deliver an almost ten pound baby without any medication, and my baby boy was born alert and eyeing everyone in the room with curiosity. It really was an amazing experience :)"
Ewelina
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★★★★★
"This was my first childbirth and I was able to deliver a 10 POUND BABY, without an epidural (which was part of my birth plan). The techniques that we learned during this course allowed my husband to support me in the way that I most needed."
Kristen
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★★★★★
"We were able to have the unmedicated birth that I wanted because we were so well prepared. They are highly qualified teachers since they have had 4 natural births themselves and are medical professionals."
Kaitlyn
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★★★★★
"Steve and Jackai are AMAZING teachers. They gave me the confidence as a husband and coach to walk along side my wife through her pregnancy. The information taught was incredibly indispensable with our first pregnancy. Then when our second pregnancy happened they help us with a refresher and I felt confident and excited to welcome our second kiddo into this world. I could not give them enough praise and credit as they were a part of such a unforgettable experience in our lives. Highly highly highly recommend taking their course."
Ramiro
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★★★★★
"Words cannot explain how thankful we are to Stephen and Jackai for empowering us and giving us the knowledge and tools to have a drug free delivery."
Yemile
WHAT’S INSIDE OUR BIRTHROOM® ACADEMY
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BODY PREP
Stay low-risk with movement, mindset, and body prep exercises.
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ROOTED NUTRITION
Learn how to eat for energy, growth, and optimal outcomes.
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ADDRESS DISCOMFORT
Natural remedies, mindset tools, and emotional prep.
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VOICE YOUR VALUES
Introduction to informed consent and advocacy
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ENLIST YOUR TEAM
Start preparing your birth partner and birth team now
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LABOR 101
Stages of labor, how to cope, and labor support techniques.
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ACTIVE SUPPORT
Partner tools, birth positions, and timing contractions
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BREATH AND MOVEMENT
Techniques to cope through intensity, naturally
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OWN YOUR VOICE
Advocacy in action when labor takes a turn
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RESPOND WITH CONFIDENCE
Managing interventions within every birth settings and staying grounded.
Join today! Doors are closing soon.
THERE’S MORE! YOU’LL ALSO GET…
Labor-Ready Framework
…to help you and your partner stay grounded and strong—so you can enter labor with clarity, calm, and connection.
BirthBoard + Core Choices Framework
…to identify your birth options and pinpointing your top values—so you can write a birth plan that actually reflects what matters most.
Move for Birth Tutorial
…to ease discomfort and support a smoother labor with stretches, strength moves, and alignment techniques tailored to your birthing body.
Track the Tides Training
…to learn to time contractions like a pro with this practical tool that helps you spot patterns, track surges, and stop second-guessing your body.
Best Birth Fit Toolkit
…to help you evaluate birth locations so you can choose the one that aligns with your goals—and walk in feeling informed, aligned, and at peace.
Informed Decisions Framework
…to learn the exact questions to ask, how to weigh your options, and how to advocate with confidence—especially when the plan shifts.
Coach Like a Champ
…to equip your BirthRoom Daddy Doula™ with simple, powerful strategies to support you through every stage—before, during, and after birth.
Coaching Sessions
…expert-led calls where we practice labor, tackle questions, and help you feel 10x more prepared for the big day. Walk away with clarity, confidence, and real-time support.
Labor Dress Rehearsal
…to walk you through your labor play-by-play so everyone knows what to do when things get real. Teamwork starts now.
Today only...
When you join Our BirthRoom Academy through the end of today, you’ll also get access to the Birth Plan Makeover Bonus—a step-by-step workshop where we walk you through how to create a birth plan that actually works when it matters most.
You’ll get our real student templates and a live training replay where we cover how to handle birth variations without losing your voice or vision.
A Total Value of $6540
Get started today for just $1197 or 3 monthly payments of $449!
GOT QUESTIONS? WE’VE GOT ANSWERS!
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We combine 25+ years of medical experience with the wisdom of our own four natural births. 🩺
But what really sets us apart?
We teach together—as birth educators.
And more importantly?
We train couples to prepare together.This isn’t a class where mom listens while dad zones out.
It’s full-on, hands-on, confidence-building team prep.And it works: 📈
✅ 99% of our out-of-hospital students have unmedicated births
✅ 85% of our in-hospital students avoid interventions
✅ Zero cases of gestational diabetes
✅ Just one case of preeclampsia—everIf you're local to San Diego, you also get the option for in-person coaching and face-to-face guidance.
These aren’t just numbers—
they’re proof that when you prepare with intention, the birth of your dreams is possible. -
Absolutely.
In fact, 50% of our students give birth in hospitals—and 85% of them still have the unmedicated, vaginal birth they hoped for.
We’ll teach you how to advocate for yourself within the system, so you feel prepared and supported, no matter where you give birth.
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We’re so glad you’re learning— that’s a great first step!
But here’s the truth: most hospital classes just skim the surface.
They’re designed to explain hospital procedures—not to prepare you to confidently navigate them.
Our BirthRoom® Academy goes deeper.
We teach:
🧠 Labor physiology
🗣️ Advocacy and decision-making
🤝 Partner prep that actually equips—not sidelines—your support personThis is the class that fills in the gaps—so you’re not just informed, you’re ready to own your birth experience.
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This program is still absolutely worth it. 💯
You’ll learn how to:
🔹 Advocate for yourself
🔹 Work with labor—not against it
🔹 Build a support team that fits your needsA loved one—like a friend, parent, or doula—can absolutely step into the BirthRoom Daddy Doula™ role.
What matters most? Having someone by your side who’s prepared, present, and willing to show up.
Because you deserve to feel supported and seen—no matter what your team looks like.
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Yes, friend. 💛
You don’t have to be 100% sure about a natural birth to benefit from this program.Our BirthRoom® Academy is here to educate, equip, and empower you—
so you can make the best decisions for your body, your baby, and your birth.Because confidence comes from having clarity.
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Not at all!
Even if your due date is right around the corner,
you can still gain powerful tools, clarity, and support from Our BirthRoom® Academy.We’ve had students join at 33, 36—even 38 weeks—
and still feel more prepared and confident than they ever thought possible.And inside the course, we show you exactly what to prioritize—so you can make the most of the time you have.
Start today. Feel more ready by tomorrow.
You’ve still got time. Let’s use it well.
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That’s a great start—
but a plan is only as strong as the preparation behind it.
Inside Our BirthRoom® Academy, you’ll learn how to:
🔹 Communicate your plan clearly to your team
🔹 Adapt when things shift—without losing your voice
🔹 Build the confidence to back it up when it matters mostBecause birth isn’t always predictable—
but your ability to respond with clarity, calm, and confidence can be. -
We get it—life is busy.
That’s why Our BirthRoom® Academy is:
⏱️ Self-paced
💻 On-demand
✔️ Designed for real people with real schedulesYou can watch one video at a time—
on your lunch break, while folding baby clothes, or even in bed with snacks.And still feel fully prepared by the time baby’s ready.
Because birth prep doesn’t have to be overwhelming—
it just needs to be doable. -
Totally.
We teach every class together—so your partner will learn from another partner who’s been there.
They’ll learn how to:
🔹 Coach you through labor (not just panic beside you)
🔹 Understand birth—without needing a med school degree
🔹 Be your advocate, anchor, and BirthRoom Daddy Doula™Inside Our BirthRoom® Academy, we take that good heart of theirs and turn it into real support.
Because when your partner’s trained?
You’re not alone in that birth room.
You’re a team—and a powerful one at that. 💥 -
Nope. 😄
If you want:
✅ Evidence-based info and real-life practicality
✅ A birth that feels empowering, not performative
✅ To trust your instincts without throwing science out the window...You’re in the right place.
We’ll help you understand your options, reduce unnecessary interventions, and make empowered choices that reflect your values.
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Actually, this program is the antidote to overwhelm. It simplifies what you really need to know, gives you a clear plan, and replaces fear with confidence. You’ll walk away feeling grounded, not frazzled.
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We’re confident Our BirthRoom Academy is the only birth course you’ll need to feel fully prepared—with your Daddy Doula by your side and your birth vision within reach.
But we also understand—sometimes life shifts.
If you join and realize within the first 7 days that it’s not the right fit, just email us at hello@ourbirthroom.com and we’ll refund your purchase.
After 7 days, you’ll have full access to the complete course, downloads, and bonus materials—so at that point, we’re all in together. (And honestly? That’s a really good place to be. 😉)
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Check with your FSA/HSA plan administrator to determine if your insurance provider reimburses birthing classes. If you qualify, follow the claim submission process and make sure to keep your receipt of purchase of the course.
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If you want to feel prepared, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a birth you can look back on with pride—absolutely.
Our students don’t just “get through” labor.
They walk away feeling:
✨ Informed
✨ Confident
✨ Deeply supportedAnd when you consider what’s at stake—
$1197 is a small investment for a once-in-a-lifetime moment.This is more than a course.
It’s preparation for a safe, supported, empowering birth—
and that kind of peace? Is priceless.
IF YOU’VE READ THIS FAR, YOU HAVE TWO OPTIONS...
Imagine where you could be after this transformation…
You’re ready to feel totally confident walking into labor—not confused, overwhelmed, or scared.
You’re ready to stop Googling your way through birth prep and finally get a clear plan that actually works.
You’re ready to train your partner to be your Daddy Doula™—
supportive, steady, and ready to advocate like a pro.
You’re ready for a way to work with labor, not against it—
and to own your birth experience from start to finish.
You’re ready for the birth of your dreams—
not the one you feel pressured into.
You’re ready for Our BirthRoom Academy.
Continue to spend more time and energy trying to figure it out on your own...
Or—
Finally have a proven, step-by-step framework to prepare for a confident, low-intervention birth with your partner fully trained and ready to support you.
Join today — doors close soon!